We get a lot of questions from our followers asking how can they meet a femme?
Some women-who-love-women also love “girly” things, which contradicts the stereotype of who and what is gay. Here are five dating problems you will probably have if you’re a femme lesbian: 1. Whether you’re among “family” (other LGBTQ folks) or mostly heterosexuals, being feminine is a sign that you’re straight. People don’t understand why someone so ‘pretty’ would be gay.
So, it’s less scary approaching someone you’re 99.9% sure is gay.
But, not all lesbians are butch, androgynous or masculine of center.
So, it’s only fitting that we break down the difficulties in dating and looking for love as a femme lesbian – something we discussed this week on Alicia Menendez Tonight.
Let’s face it, women can be just as nervous about approaching women they’re interested in as men.
Whether you love your lipstick and Louboutin heels, or lipbalm and loafers; it’s up to you as to how you define and if you feel this is the right dating spot for you. You’re more than welcome to sign up to, the more the merrier! There’s many of us out there who haven’t met many other femmes and we know how important it is to feel like you belong.
We know that not every femme is also into femmes, and we want to help as many people find love. #femmefriendshipforlife We put our lives out there as a couple to fill the gap of lesbian role models and to show that you can be feminine and a lesbian.
You will only be able to message femmes within your own country.
Conquering long distance between countries is very difficult, so we hope you can find friendship/love nearby!
Find Femmes is a dating site aimed at feminine identified LGBTQ women, aka femmes/ lipstick lesbians.
It can be hard to find love, and a community, when you’re a femme, and we’re here to help!